Anxiety Therapy for Children, Teens, and Young Adults
Support for Kids Struggling With Worry, Stress, Perfectionism, School Anxiety, Social Anxiety, and Big Emotions
When your child is struggling with anxiety, it can feel like your whole family is walking on eggshells.
Maybe your child is stuck in a worry loop over seemingly “small” problems. Perhaps your morning routines have become dictated by your child’s emotions, filled with emotional outbursts that seem impossible to tame. Precious bedtime connection may be hijacked by worry, causing your child to ruminate about the day and worry about what tomorrow may bring. Or, your once happy child may appear irritable and overwhelmed, angering over details that are not part of their rigid plan.
Anxiety wears many masks. Sometimes it looks like anger, sometimes it looks like avoidance, and sometimes it looks like perfectionism, stomachaches, tears, or shutting down altogether.
If you're wondering whether anxiety may be affecting your child, you are in good company.
Many children and teens experience anxiety at some point in their lives, but when worry begins interfering with daily life, relationships, school, sleep, or confidence levels, additional support can make a huge difference.
Julie’s Approach to Anxiety Therapy
Julie works with children, teens, young adults, and parents to help them better understand anxiety, build confidence, and develop practical tools for navigating life's challenges.
As both a therapist and a mother of three, Julie understands how exhausting it can feel to watch your child struggle. She brings warmth, compassion, and real-world parenting experience into her work while helping families move toward greater calm, resilience, and connection.
Therapy is about learning how to manage anxiety, not eliminating it. Through the use of evidence-based practices, Julie teaches her clients how to notice, manage and respond to their worries, instead of reacting the way worry wants them to, which is inevitably some form of avoidance. If anxiety must ride along, it does not have to be in the driver’s seat. Children can learn to take back the wheel.
Could My Child Be Struggling With Anxiety?
Every child experiences worry from time to time. Anxiety becomes a clinical concern when fears, worries, or stress begin to interfere with and dictate everyday life.
You may notice your child:
Worrying excessively about school, friendships, health, sports, or the future
Asking frequent "what if?" questions that are difficult to answer
Struggling with transitions or unexpected changes
Avoiding new situations or challenges
Seeking constant reassurance
Having difficulty sleeping or falling asleep
Complaining of headaches, stomachaches, or other physical symptoms
Becoming overwhelmed by mistakes or criticism
Experiencing emotional outbursts after holding it together all day
Avoiding social situations or activities they once enjoyed
Appearing unusually sensitive, fearful, or withdrawn
This is not an exhaustive list, by any means. Anxiety can be surprisingly good at disguising itself and may go unnoticed by even the most attentive parents, caregivers and educators. If you suspect something is “off” with your child, these concerns are likely worth addressing.
Your Questions Answered
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Anxiety is part of the brain's built-in alarm system. The purpose of the alarm is to identify potential threats and help keep us safe. Worry tricks our brain into thinking we are unsafe by sending “danger” messages: “What if I get in trouble?” “I can’t handle this!” “Something bad could happen!” Our alarm system does not know the difference between a real threat and an imagined danger, and this is how worry takes hold—it triggers false alarms that feel real.
Childhood anxiety can take many forms, including:
Generalized Anxiety
Persistent worries about everyday situations and future events
Social Anxiety
Fear of being judged, embarrassed, or rejected by peers, teachers, coaches, or other people.
School Anxiety
Difficulty attending school, worries about performance, fear of making mistakes, or emotional distress related to academic expectations.
Separation Anxiety
Intense worry about being away from parents or caregivers, often leading to difficulty with drop-offs, sleepovers, or independent activities.
Performance Anxiety
Stress related to sports, academics, public speaking, auditions, tests, or other situations where children feel pressure to succeed.
Health Anxiety
Frequent concerns about illness, symptoms, injuries, or physical health.
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It’s not you. Worry in children does not always sound like, “I’m worried.” In fact, it rarely sounds like that! Instead, anxiety can show up in many forms depending upon the child’s age, personality and level of emotional awareness. Examples include:
Perfectionism
Procrastination
Defiance
Clinginess
Irritability
Anger
Avoidance
Frequent physical complaints
Emotional meltdowns
Withdrawal
Parents are often surprised to learn that behaviors that look oppositional or “dramatic” can be driven by fear underneath the surface. Understanding what anxiety looks like is often the first step toward helping children feel better.
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Therapy for anxiety helps children understand what worry is, why it happens, and how to respond differently when it shows up. Rather than trying to eliminate all anxiety, therapy focuses on building confidence, flexibility, emotional regulation skills, and resilience.
Children learn how to:
Recognize anxious thoughts
Manage overwhelming emotions
Develop healthy coping strategies
Face fears gradually and safely
Build confidence through practice and success
Improve emotional flexibility
Develop greater independence
Julie uses evidence-based anxiety treatment approaches that are tailored to each child's age, personality, strengths, and specific challenges.
Parent involvement in therapy is important for children and teenagers, and this is especially true in the treatment of anxiety. Parents have the greatest influence over their child’s daily environment. When parents learn how to respond to their child’s anxiety effectively, they can support their child’s progress and encourage brave behavior, which is the antidote to avoidance - the very fuel that keeps anxiety going.
Anxiety Can Look Different at Every Age
There is no single way anxiety shows up in children. Some kids talk openly about their worries, while others hide them. Some become emotional and reactive. Others become quiet, perfectionistic, or avoidant.
As children grow, the focus of their worries often changes too. What starts as separation anxiety in elementary school may evolve into social anxiety, academic pressure, perfectionism, or future-focused worries during adolescence and young adulthood.
That is why looking beyond the behavior and understanding what may be driving it underneath is so important.
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Young children often express anxiety through behaviors rather than words. Parents may notice:
Difficulty separating from parents
Bedtime fears
Frequent reassurance-seeking
School avoidance
Fears about safety, illness, or bad things happening
Big emotional reactions to unexpected changes
Parents often notice:
repetitive questions and reassurance-seeking
bedtime struggles and difficulty separating
fears around getting sick, safety, or something bad happening
needing routines done in very specific ways
meltdowns when plans change unexpectedly
excessive confessing or fear of getting in trouble
repeating behaviors, touching, counting, or checking
avoidance of certain places, people, or activities
perfectionism around schoolwork or mistakes
At this age, OCD can sometimes look like “big emotions,” defiance, or extreme sensitivity when underneath it is actually fear and anxiety driving the behavior. Pediatric OCD often first becomes noticeable during the elementary school years, although symptoms can emerge earlier or later depending on the child.
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As social awareness increases, anxiety often becomes more complex. Children may struggle with:
Friendships
Social comparison
Academic pressure
Fear of embarrassment
Perfectionism
Growing self-consciousness
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Teen anxiety often revolves around increasing responsibilities and identity development. Common concerns include:
Grades and academic performance
Sports and extracurricular activities
College planning
Social relationships
Body image
Future uncertainty
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Major life transitions can intensify anxiety symptoms. Young adults may struggle with:
Independence
Career decisions
Relationships
Decision-making
Financial stress
Balancing responsibilities
When Should You Reach Out For Help?
Many parents worry about whether their child's anxiety is "serious enough" to seek support. The truth is that you do not need to wait for a crisis.
If anxiety is beginning to affect your child's confidence, relationships, school experience, independence, sleep, or overall well-being, it may be worth speaking with a child anxiety therapist.
Early support can often prevent anxiety from becoming more disruptive and help children develop healthier coping skills that benefit them for years to come.
If your instincts are telling you something feels off, it is okay to trust them.
Julie’s Approach
Julie brings warmth, humor, honesty, and compassion into her work with children, teens, young adults, and families.
Her approach is collaborative, supportive, and focused on helping kids feel emotionally safe while also building practical tools for managing anxiety.
Therapy with Julie is not about perfection. It is about helping children develop the confidence and skills they need to navigate challenges both now and in the future.
Most importantly, therapy is a partnership. Julie works alongside children and parents to create meaningful, lasting change.
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Yes. Anxiety is a normal and expected human emotion. Most children experience worries and fears at various stages of development. Therapy may be helpful when anxiety begins interfering with daily life or causing significant distress.
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No. Many families seek support before a formal diagnosis is made.
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Absolutely. Anxiety commonly contributes to headaches, stomachaches, nausea, muscle tension, sleep difficulties, and other physical symptoms.
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What if my child is nervous about therapy?
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Julie is a SPACE-trained therapist and can often work with parents to help reduce anxiety patterns at home, even when a child is reluctant to participate initially.
Your Questions Answered
Support for Parents Too
Parenting an anxious child can be exhausting. You want to help. You want to reassure them. You want to make things easier. However, the strategies that feel helpful in the moment can unintentionally strengthen anxiety over time.
Julie works closely with parents to help families:
Understand anxiety patterns
Reduce accommodations that may be reinforcing anxiety
Respond more effectively to worry and fear
Improve family communication
Build confidence and independence
Create healthier routines and expectations
Parents need support, too, and when parents feel more confident, children often do as well.
You Don’t Have To Do This Alone
Anxiety can make children and families feel overwhelmed, isolated, and stuck. But with the right support, children can learn to manage anxiety, build confidence, and develop the skills they need to thrive.
Whether your child is struggling with worry, perfectionism, school anxiety, social anxiety, separation anxiety, or overwhelming stress, help is available and meaningful change is possible.
